im stressed

& you ask what else is new? but this is a bit crazy. life needs to calm the heck down. so for that im trying to minimize where ever i possibly can. theres lots going on & theres lots that needs to be tended to in the sense of decision making. im sure everything will fall into place soon enough but until it does, its mind boggling. everything is everywhere & im trying to hold it all in place.
a few pieces of advice im trying to follow:
-keep it simple
-make one big decision & the rest will follow
-trust in god
-stop scheduling more than you can handle

all good stuff but its hard to follow.
im stressing the tea party im having. i think i have it mostly figured out but its not completely there yet & yes its this sunday. my tea cups are take homes that are to be used while they are here but they dont have handles on them. i have already purchased a large quantity of them. so thats where it begun. also have 3 big teapots that should be decent enough. probably need an iced tea as well.
my craft room is filled with boas & mary engelbriets themed stuff & fake pearl necklaces. the menu is getting there with a def. of cupcakes, cucumber sandwiches, pimento cheese ones & chix. salad. a fruit tray & plenty of cookies will be around. im just not sure what else to do just yet. maybe something spicy as well.
i just hope it all goes well. im stressing about the tea pots & how to keep the water hot.
& so im hoping to get thru this weekend & then the rest must follow.

I'm in Charlotte finally visiting ms s's "thaou" (dahlings brother) . And ms s is having a nice time. She loves to be around extended family. She likes knowing her cousins. And dahlings bro. adores her. While they dance I can't help the headache go away. Maybe 1 drink too little for me or it's just me not feeling good as I've been like on and off lately. Hmmm. Hoping I'll make out this weekend ok.

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jan31st

new years eve with family- which was dahling bday as well.
& yes a&a are our family as well. we spend way too much time together.

& the dancing

well mummy was def. bestest & the mostest.

been watching oprahs show on dvr-with the whitney houston interview/stuff & whoooeii that was some stuff. funny thing is that its so normal & feels like it could happen to anyone. but for someone thats so famous & strong to go thru it all & then speak of it is wonderful. i love to see a person grow after so many years. i love that when you seek gods help that it all comes thru. that it all comes together. its sad to see that a relationship can destroy someone who is so fab. its crazy how someone can come in your life & you then you cant recognize the difference between passionate love & love thats gone wrong. & i mean if someones drawing eyes all over your walls & on your doors-its time to get out! how crazy you need a relationship to be.

2010 is here-finally!

ive been waiting. im hoping for this year to be laid back & without much huge worries. all im expecting is to not expect much. i hope its not too much to ask for. im hoping to eat good food, watch good movies, listen to nice songs, dress nicely, love whole heartedly, try to practice patience, & be more inderstanding of everyones point of view & ways. lets see how it goes. just no big stuff. im down with the little things in life. im hoping to see more of those then te grander ones.

the nite of the blue moon

tonite will be a blue moon nite. well be ringing in the new year with that above us. its the name for 2nd full moon of the month which doesnt happen much. last time it happened was in 2007. but the color of the moon isnt blue-its just the whole expression "once in a blue moon" stems from this. how things happen once in a while. last time this happened on a new years eve was in 1990. cool huh!
lets continue relating to the once in a blue moon effect. how having a person this perfect happens once in a blue moon. in all aspects he is wonderful. a good man all around. & to have it around in my life daily is a blessing. he is a great pappi & a good companion. everything else follows not far from that. im so glad he was made-sometimes it just seemed for me. so enough of the public display for now. i love you dahling & may you have a wonderful 32nd year.